Confidence Rufai, daughter of late Super Eagles legend Peter Rufai, has explained why her father’s battle with illness was kept out of the public eye, describing it as a reflection of his deeply personal values and reserved nature.
Rufai, a former goalkeeper and part of Nigeria’s historic 1994 AFCON-winning squad, passed away on July 3, 2025, leaving many Nigerians shocked by the news due to the secrecy surrounding his health.
Speaking during a moving “Night of Tributes” held at the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs, Victoria Island, Lagos, Confidence addressed the public’s curiosity and expressed understanding toward those who were surprised by the news.
“To those who felt hurt by the secrecy, I apologise,” she said. “My dad loved privacy. He truly enjoyed a quiet, reserved life. He didn’t want publicity about his condition. He would rather pass on peacefully than be seen in the public eye because of illness.”
She went on to highlight his strength, dignity, and unwavering self-respect.
“Even in hardship, he preferred to remain silent and composed. He never bragged or sought attention. That deep sense of dignity runs in me and my siblings too.”
Beyond his quiet nature, Confidence spoke of Rufai’s patriotism, describing him as a selfless man who gave everything in service of his country.
“He was more than a father to us. He believed his duty extended beyond family. He felt responsible for those less privileged,” she said. “There is no value Nigeria can place on his service he gave it all.”
The tribute event was organized by football icon Segun Odegbami and sponsored by Air Peace Chairman Allen Onyema. It honoured Rufai alongside four other departed sports heroes: Moses Effiong, Charles Bassey, Christian Chukwu, and boxing legend Obisia Nwakpa.
Dignitaries present included Lagos State Sports Commission Director-General Lekan Fatodu (representing Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu), top officials from the Nigeria Football Federation, and former national players such as Etim Esin and Waidi Akanni.
Confidence concluded by revealing that burial plans for her father are underway and would be announced soon.
“We prefer to keep things discreet. But in time, more will be revealed,” she said.
Peter Rufai, affectionately known as “Dodo Mayana,” remains one of Nigeria’s most iconic football figures, remembered for his performances between the goalposts and his quiet legacy of service and humility.
