General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has shared personal insights on maintaining romance in marriage, even in the face of spiritual responsibilities. In a candid post on his official Facebook page, the revered pastor revealed that despite their senior roles, he and his wife, Foluke, still nurture their love with pet names when they are alone, stressing that “anointing does not reduce romance.”
Encouraging married couples, particularly pastors, to prioritize intimacy and romance, Adeboye highlighted the need to keep marriages vibrant and joyful. “Don’t let romance die,” he counseled, pointing out that being deeply spiritual should not come at the expense of a thriving marital relationship.
The pastor touched on a common issue among some clergy members, explaining that many avoid romantic activities, believing them to be distractions from their spiritual focus. “Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters,” he remarked.
Pastor Adeboye emphasized that romance is an essential part of a Christian marriage, drawing from the Bible to illustrate his point. He cited Genesis 26:8, where Isaac was seen playfully interacting with his wife, Rebekah, as an example of how even an anointed man of God maintained romance in his relationship.
“Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy are allowed between a man and a woman,” Adeboye said, reminding couples that romance and love should not fade after years of marriage.
In a heartfelt reflection on his own relationship, the 81-year-old pastor shared that he still composes poems for his wife and surprises her with notes. “Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse and read it to him or her in a romantic setting. Spice things up with pleasant surprises every now and then,” he advised.
He also encouraged couples to rekindle the connection they once had, urging them to remember the excitement they shared before life’s responsibilities took over. “Your spouse is still the same fellow you were very fond of, and the things you loved in him or her are still there. Don’t let all the cares of this life distract you from the gems in your spouse.”
Reflecting on his own marriage, Adeboye shared a personal note, stating that even in their senior roles, he and his wife remain close as lovers: “Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone. When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O. and Mummy G.O.”
Pastor Adeboye concluded by reminding couples to be intentional about keeping the romance alive in their marriages, saying, “Your marriage can be like heaven on earth if you and your spouse are deliberate about remaining the lovebirds that you were when you first got married. Don’t let the romance die.”
His message has resonated with many, as it challenges the common assumption that deep spirituality and romance are incompatible, advocating instead for a balance that fosters love and intimacy in Christian marriages.
